LIFE AS I KNOW IT by OBIEZE NWOSU

I've known Obi for almost all my life(Well, most). We met back in our early university days. At a studio where we were doing the cover shoot for "Campus Quest" magazine. We had been chosen to grace the cover of the new edition. When Obi said he had something to share to my readers i was shocked cos i have never known him to be someone who talks about his personal life, but when i read through this... I knew you guys would learn a thing or two from it because i did. And it is definitely worth sharing.

From the diary of Obieze Nwosu  
  IT WOULD BE UNFAIR(ABNORMAL IF YOU LIKE) IF I DONT GET CRITICIZED AS TO THE EXPERIENCE I HAVE TO WRITE ON SUCH TOPIC, I DARE SAY THAT I HAVE SEEN, WITNESSED AND PASSED THROUGH A LOT LATELY TO KNOW FOR A FACT THAT OUR EVERYDAY LIFE TURNS OUT JUST THE WAY WE PLAN IT. ALL ENTRIES IN THIS NOTE ARE SOLELY EVENTS I HAVE WITNESSED IN LIFE(MY LIFE EXPERIENCES IF YOU LIKE) AND SOLUTIONS I HAVE APPLIED THAT WORKED PERFECTLY FOR ME. HOWEVER WHAT WORKS FOR ME MIGHT NOT EXACTLY WORK FOR YOU BUT ITS MY DESIRE TO SHARE WITH YOU WHAT MIGHT HELP TO TACKLE YOUR OWN EVERY DAY LIFE CHALLENGE, I'LL TRY AS MUCH AS I CAN TO BE PRECISE TO ALLOW FOR SCRUTINY AND SERIOUS DIALOGUE. OKAY HERE I GO...


      I'VE LEARNT TO START MY DAY BY CHOOSING THE RIGHT ATTITUDE EVERY MORNING, ITS KINDA LIBERATING AND INTERESTING TO KNOW THAT A GOOD OR BAD DAY IS COMPLETELY IN OUR CONTROL HENCE THE CHOICE TO MAKE EITHER OF THEM HAPPEN IS ABSOLUTELY OUR DECISION.

     BEEN PRODUCTIVE EARLY IN THE DAY PUTS ME IN A BETTER PLACE MENTALLY AND CREATIVELY FOR THE REST OF THE DAY, JUST GET ON WITH WHATEVER YOU OUGHT TO DO, MOST TIMES THE RESULT MIGHT NOT BE WHAT WE EXPECT BUT THE SOLUTION WE APPLY TO THE CHALLENGE KEEPS US IN THE PERFECT CORNER NEEDED TO TACKLE/FACE THE NEXT CHALLENGE. MIGHT I SAY HERE THAT PERFECTION IS A MYTH AND A VERY DESTRUCTIVE PURSUIT(PEOPLE DON'T EVEN APPRECIATE WHAT MIGHT SEEM TO BE PERFECT, THEY WOULD RATHER HAVE YOU REGRET THE EFFORT) HOWEVER IMPROVEMENT IS THE ANSWER!!!

I HAVE SPENT YEARS PERFECTING THE SKILL OF NOT MAKING THE RIGHT DECISION I SHOULD, BUT LATELY I HAVE COME TO REALIZE THAT I AM MAKING A DECISION BY NOT MAKING ANY DECISION AT ALL, WE SHOULD BELIEVE IN OURSELVES AS THE BEST DECISION MAKERS MORE ESPECIALLY TO MATTERS CONCERNING OUR PERSONAL LIFE. I WAIT FOR NOBODY TO MAKE MY LIFE DECISIONS FOR ME,NO! NOT ANYMORE. I DON'T LOOK FOR APPROVALS AND PERMISSIONS TO CARRY ON WITH LIFE ANYMORE. TAKE A DECISION WITHIN YOURSELF!!

     LIFE IS CHALLENGING ENOUGH WITHOUT US COMPLICATING THE SIMPLE AND UNLESS SOMEONE IS POINTING A GUN TO YOUR HEAD EVERY OTHER THING YOU DO TO YOUR BODY IS A CONSCIOUS CHOICE. .
    
MY ADVICE? DONT RELY ON THE MOTIVATIONAL SPIRIT THAT PROJECTS ITSELF AS OUR BEST FRIEND, WHAT HAPPENS WHEN IT SUBSIDES? RATHER CARRY ON WITH THE NEGOTIABLE BEHAVIOR AND DISTANCE YOUR MIND FROM  MOTIVATIONAL SPIRIT.



PEACE

*If you have something worth sharing, please send me an email - DeevasMgt@yahoo.com

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