Most of us don't celebrate our individualism,we hate who we are,we wished we were related to Audrey Hepburn or we were one of the Kardashians. We don't know how to express ourselves and be happy with the way we are. And this is most common amongst the ladies,when a girl allows societal influence gets to her she starts lying about herself....Heard about the girl who said she likes going for holidays to london but has never gone to the United Kingdom? YES!!!! Thats the kind of not being yourself i want us to gist about.
They are different kind of lies- The Big lie,the bluffing lie,Lying by omission,Misleading/dissembling,Noble lie,Perjury,Puffery,Compliments,White lie,Lying through teeth,Jocose lie,Fabrication,Exaggeration,Emegency lie,Barefaced lie,Contextual lie and so on.
I have met different kinds of fake boys and girls,mostly girls. When i started school in University of Abuja back in 2005,i met a girl on one of those days we were queueing for registration,i made friends with her,believed everything she said until the day she said her mother lives in the UK and she visits her mum every summer,that their house is in Paris.... I have never been to Paris before but i know very well paris is not in the UK. After that i started suspecting her every move and words,i never believed a word that came out from her mouth,her so-called mother as i later found out sells food stuff in the market back home and her grandmother who sends food stuff is her mother.
Some girls lie about everything,i mean you even deny your mother and father. What you see in movies is reality. Look for "I belong" and watch staring Omotola Jalade,a home video about fake life and a fake girl. Some girls even write a book about themselves and live the life from the book. My father this,my father that... this kind of people are found mostly in towns like Lagos,Abuja,PH,NY,Carlifonia,London etc Yes! not only Nigerian girls live the fake life.
How about the people on social networking sites like facebook,that have 2pages. the one where they put their real status(married) and the other page they use to flirt or do business. We find ourselves in an environment where misconception is a regular. Some lie about where they live,their location on facebook is London meanwhile they live in warri. LIES LIES LIES.
Or is it the girls that lie about where they shop,where they live,where they school and when you get to know them you realize they live in remote areas,shop in balogun market and don't even know what a school gate looks like. When a girl lies to a boy,its not okay but i think its better than when a girl lies to her fellow girl. Inshort,NONE OF IT IS BETTER. Living a fake life to suit the world will whittle you and your lies will definitely catch up with you. Always be a first rate of yourself,instead of a second version of somebody.... Don't get accustomed with disguise that in the end you become disguised to yourself. If God wanted you otherwise,he would have created you otherwise.
It is funny how, many people use money they don't have, to buy stuff they don,t need,to impress people they don,t like. Some people are pathological liars,they live in the ocean of lies,they always have an answer to everything,they can,t be caught. Some move from state to state with different names and a new story.
I HAVE SOME ADVICE FOR YOU if you are one hell of a FAKE.
1. LEARN TO DEFINE YOURSELF: Try to create time for yourself and contemplate your life and choices,try not to be anyone as everyone else is already taken.
2. STOP CARING ABOUT HOW PEOPLE PERCIEVE YOU: Don't be caught up wondering what they think about you. However,if someone criticizes an aspect about you,feel free to judge whether or not it is accurate instead of accepting or dismissing the critique unconditionally.
3.BE HONEST AND OPEN: What you have to hide is what someone who sincerely likes you will take. If you feel ashamed or insecure about any aspect of yourself and you feel that you have to hide those parts of you-physically or emotionally,then you have to come to terms with that and learn to call your so-called flaws into INDIVIDUALISTIC QUIRKS.
4. RELAAXXXX,stop worrying about the worst that can happen,especially in social situations...Turn your story into a funny tale you can share with others,it is attractive when someone is able to be able to laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously.
5. ACCEPYT that some days you are the pigeon and some days you are the statue. People might raise eyebrows and even make fun,but as long as you can shrug and say "Hey,thats just me" and leave it at that,people will ultimately respect you for iyt,and you will respect yourself.
6. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF: If you are always working to be someone you are not,you will never be a happy person.
7. FOLLOW YOUR OWN STYLE: Stand out
They are different kind of lies- The Big lie,the bluffing lie,Lying by omission,Misleading/dissembling,Noble lie,Perjury,Puffery,Compliments,White lie,Lying through teeth,Jocose lie,Fabrication,Exaggeration,Emegency lie,Barefaced lie,Contextual lie and so on.
I have met different kinds of fake boys and girls,mostly girls. When i started school in University of Abuja back in 2005,i met a girl on one of those days we were queueing for registration,i made friends with her,believed everything she said until the day she said her mother lives in the UK and she visits her mum every summer,that their house is in Paris.... I have never been to Paris before but i know very well paris is not in the UK. After that i started suspecting her every move and words,i never believed a word that came out from her mouth,her so-called mother as i later found out sells food stuff in the market back home and her grandmother who sends food stuff is her mother.
Some girls lie about everything,i mean you even deny your mother and father. What you see in movies is reality. Look for "I belong" and watch staring Omotola Jalade,a home video about fake life and a fake girl. Some girls even write a book about themselves and live the life from the book. My father this,my father that... this kind of people are found mostly in towns like Lagos,Abuja,PH,NY,Carlifonia,London etc Yes! not only Nigerian girls live the fake life.
How about the people on social networking sites like facebook,that have 2pages. the one where they put their real status(married) and the other page they use to flirt or do business. We find ourselves in an environment where misconception is a regular. Some lie about where they live,their location on facebook is London meanwhile they live in warri. LIES LIES LIES.
Or is it the girls that lie about where they shop,where they live,where they school and when you get to know them you realize they live in remote areas,shop in balogun market and don't even know what a school gate looks like. When a girl lies to a boy,its not okay but i think its better than when a girl lies to her fellow girl. Inshort,NONE OF IT IS BETTER. Living a fake life to suit the world will whittle you and your lies will definitely catch up with you. Always be a first rate of yourself,instead of a second version of somebody.... Don't get accustomed with disguise that in the end you become disguised to yourself. If God wanted you otherwise,he would have created you otherwise.
It is funny how, many people use money they don't have, to buy stuff they don,t need,to impress people they don,t like. Some people are pathological liars,they live in the ocean of lies,they always have an answer to everything,they can,t be caught. Some move from state to state with different names and a new story.
I HAVE SOME ADVICE FOR YOU if you are one hell of a FAKE.
1. LEARN TO DEFINE YOURSELF: Try to create time for yourself and contemplate your life and choices,try not to be anyone as everyone else is already taken.
2. STOP CARING ABOUT HOW PEOPLE PERCIEVE YOU: Don't be caught up wondering what they think about you. However,if someone criticizes an aspect about you,feel free to judge whether or not it is accurate instead of accepting or dismissing the critique unconditionally.
3.BE HONEST AND OPEN: What you have to hide is what someone who sincerely likes you will take. If you feel ashamed or insecure about any aspect of yourself and you feel that you have to hide those parts of you-physically or emotionally,then you have to come to terms with that and learn to call your so-called flaws into INDIVIDUALISTIC QUIRKS.
4. RELAAXXXX,stop worrying about the worst that can happen,especially in social situations...Turn your story into a funny tale you can share with others,it is attractive when someone is able to be able to laugh at themselves and not take themselves too seriously.
5. ACCEPYT that some days you are the pigeon and some days you are the statue. People might raise eyebrows and even make fun,but as long as you can shrug and say "Hey,thats just me" and leave it at that,people will ultimately respect you for iyt,and you will respect yourself.
6. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF: If you are always working to be someone you are not,you will never be a happy person.
7. FOLLOW YOUR OWN STYLE: Stand out
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